Steph here,
Making love should be the number one priority in this world. There is a shortage of it going on! We need to resolve this problem by making love with as many random people and things as possible… Touch those who don’t want to be touched. Probe those who have not been probed enough. Get crazy! Don't use protection the first time! It is best to expose yourself to the vulnerability of lovemaking. It’s scary, but what a rush! Make love to a stranger… make love to an animal... make love to a tree! You can truly make love to anything and everything if you allow yourself to be open.
I promise I’m not some freaky, crazed addict. Allow me to clarify my use of the term ‘lovemaking.’ (I don’t want any emails with complaints of tree bark up one’s ass)
Making love is an interaction… not intercourse.
It is a life skill that simply is just loving for absolutely no reason. Helping a stranger with his/her groceries, just because; holding the door open for someone behind you; leaving water outside for an animal in this heat… it does not matter. Love is love. Kindness is love. Affection is love… there is an abundance of love in each person. Be aware of it. Access it. Use it. Put your guard down and allow wonderful things to happen to you. Eventually it will get you ahead in life!
Too many people are diluted on what they think ‘love’ is. They are dillusional and wrong!
Love does not tell you to have dinner ready by a certain time… love does not make you change who you are… love does not physically or mentally abuse you.
Love respects you. You make dinner for your partner because you want to show your appreciation, and in retrospect, they acknowledge and give praise to your efforts, no matter how bad the food tastes.
Love helps you achieve your goals, not make you change them so it is more convenient for him/her.
Love DOES NOT lay a finger on you to put you in your place. (And if they do, I have a gorgeous double barrel shotgun with their name all over it!)
I see, far too often, people getting married, when they have absolutely no reason to. They think they are in love because it is convenient or tradition. They are lost in what their partner likes. They do exactly what they are told with no question. Why would you want a life of commitment to someone who does not ADORE your individual soul, or your unique sense of style? Why get married to someone who does not put you on the golden, shrine pedestal you were born to sit upon?! Look at your relationship… Are you truly respected? Does your partner actually know who you are? Do they ask you to change for their benefit? Sometimes it’s easier to accept a ring and go along with a proposal because you would rather be in a heartless marriage then ‘single’…
When did ‘single’ become the equivalent to lonely?
I have news for you weak-minded bigots, looking at me crazy because I’m on my road to 30 with no partner in sight... Although I do not have a significant other, I have more love and joy in my life than half the miserably married people out there. You do not need to be in a relationship to have a fulfilled life! If you do not truly know who you are, how in the hell are you going to make someone else happy?! The answer is- You won’t. You will wake up 10 years down the line with your ‘loving’ husband canoodling his secretary and a kid hanging off each tit. If that is happiness, no thank you! I would choose the leprosy of the single life!
I do believe in love and marriage, but only when it is truly right. Marriage should be a compromise.. a meeting in the middle. Two separate, amazing lives colliding and penetrating the each other's souls. Not a 'Well, shit, I guess we have been together for 3 years.. Might as well.'
This is where the making love to all comes into play. If you are surrounding yourself with love and spreading it to others, you will receive love in return! You will never be lonely. Take your protection off.. Put your guard down. Open yourself to new opportunities. You don’t have to have a ‘boyfriend’ or ‘girlfriend’ to be happy and in love. The universe is my girlfriend, and I am simply the mistress. I allow her to use my body as an energy capsule, and in retrospect, she protects me. Relationships should be a give and take situation. Put effort into making love to those who are around you, whether they are family, friends, or strangers. The reward will be great and you may find true happiness in yourself.
Hatred is the herpes of the universe and spreads like wildfires. And just like the disease, it may go away for a bit, but it always rears its unfortunate head. Spread positive energy and make love to those who need it. Spread joy and affection. Love yourself. Love others. Love the universe.. who knows, you may find real love along the way?!
So, it is time to sit your grand ass on your majestic throne, and get slutty with the world! Make love over and over and OVER again, until you are exhausted from the overwhelming beauty you have spread!You have the power… use it.
Peace.
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